Queering expressions of love, intimacy, and connection. The act of cake sitting is a celebration of the temporality of our existence. Perverting the societal rituals that often include a cake, such as birthdays, weddings, and other holidays. When we accept, acknowledge, and live with an understanding of our own mortality, only then are we able to maintain a sense of presence and live fully in the moment. When we accept death, we can truly live. 

Cover of California, Angel Olsen 

 In collaboration with Justine Neves

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